有没有因为自卑所以不想恋爱的？

i used to be like this until 2 years before
even speaking normally to others or hving eye-contact, it seemed to be impossible to me
i think this is because of communication
while you know more about the others you'll find that everyone got their personality weaknesses
no one is perfect, and you'll know that you're not the worst
if your problem is about your looking,
i can tell you everyone is the same but they know how to conceal
you should learn from the others but not only watching them in distance

while you know more about the others you'll find that everyone got their personality weaknesses
no one is perfect, and you'll know that you're not the worst
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得到了点点安慰

谢谢

我自己总结不能让自己变得自信的原因是自己没有什么毅力，太容易BLX了

自卑的人都很懦弱啊

让男生误会以为我喜欢人家。。

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所以我怀疑我在别人眼里就一大HC.....

when i was still in school
whenever its free time
i can't stay in corridors with crowd
always feeling people around was talking about me
dun even hv the mood to dress up or hv nice hair
believed that i was an unlucky one
I was born to be different
i was restricted?by myself
belonged to nowhere (including my home)
LZ reminds me those days
confidence is no way to "instant"
take it easy (ok i know its not easy)

被人看起来清高还好

我就怕别人看我就是一只猪

觉得他们一定瞧不起我

无才颜也平庸 看吧我是这里最自卑的

终于找到组织了

还有人能帮忙建个群，我们大家一起来克服吧

也很自卑的一枚.有时候欠扁的问别人有没有觉得我有什么优点,结果人家都是支支吾吾说"你很好人拉""肯帮人拉"

结果越听越郁闷,怎么像一无是处的好心的好欺负的傻大姐...

不过现在又想想偶写,估计我问错人拉,有些人是不会赞别人的,有些人还只会损人,去问她们只是自取其辱...

9L，我和你一样。??

初二那天，见到了以前一直暗恋但从来不敢表白的人，没想到还是那么有感觉

但是这么多年没见，我说的第一句话竟然是“真认不出了，长胖了嘛”

后面给我悔的呀，肠子都青了

而且最令我想撞墙的是竟然没有留电话，茫茫人海，到哪去找呀，难道我注定与他无缘么

学位证很惨的没有拿到手，因为四级的原因。工作后因为这个一直也不想恋爱,有哪位姐妹可以告诉我怎么摆脱这个心理阴影....

总觉得喜欢一个人是很严重的事情...

人无完人,所以老是理解不了所谓的爱情...

怎么可以爱一个明摆着有缺陷的人呢

喜欢难道不是在自己的能力范围内尽量选择最好的?

一旦自己提升了就很容易变心找更好的?

然后就觉得,看上我的估计条件不好,那我就看不上的...

有空去重修一门外语会不会放下之前的心结呢

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谢谢这位的回答.