所谓的梦想。。。

小学我想卖冰棍

初中想半个报摊儿免费看ACG杂志和我爱摇滚乐

高中被学校小卖铺阿姨扫钱的速度吓到 觉得还是承包个学校小卖铺靠谱儿

大学想加盟个社区小超市

我现在明白了 一直以来我的梦想就是自由

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拍大腿！恍然大悟！！

推荐给各位GN一个找到自我的方法。

Feeling Stuck? 100 Ways to Change your Life
你觉得被困住了吗？100种方法让你改变你的生活

by Nora Dunn

You've got 20 minutes to change your life in 100 ways. Go.

你有20分钟的时间，用100种方式改变生活。现在就开始吧!

This is the premise of an exercise I tried once, when I was feeling stuck in life. I wasn't sure what was amiss, but the routine I had fallen into was not satisfying the inner voice in me that insisted there was something else out there for me.

这是当我觉得被生活困住时，我试过的一个练习。我不确定哪里出了差错，但是例行生活并不能满足我的内在呼唤。我坚信在某处必定还有某些事物在等着我。


After trying (forcefully) to understand what was going on, reading self-help books, filling out aptitude tests, and working with business and life coaches, I was given a suggestion that became a catalyst for some pretty big personal changes.

在试着（强迫）去了解到底发生了什么事，阅读了自我帮助的书，填写了性向测验，接受事业及生活上的咨询，我得到的建议是，去催化一些非常重要的个人转变发生。


Here is how you can change your life in 20 minutes, step by step:

以下是你能在20分钟内改变生活的步骤:

1. Clear all distractions. Turn off the phone, the tv, the computer. Lock your door, and go to a quiet place.

排除所有会让你分心的事物。关掉电话，电视及电脑。锁上门，找一个安静的所在。


2. Sit down comfortably at a desk or table, with a blank piece of paper and a pen in front of you.

舒适地安坐在书桌或桌子旁，在你的面前摆上一张空白的纸及一支笔。


3. Set a timer for 20 minutes.

将定时器设定为20分钟。

Something happens after about 10 or 15 minutes if you employ the exercise to its full potential. You stop caring about what specifically the ideas are, and you start to release an inner creativity that may have been locked away for a while. In an effort to get through 100 things in 20 minutes, you start to write outlandish things down that you aren't even really sure you want, but that are ideas that came to you nonetheless.

如果你有将这个练习的效果发挥到极致，10到15分钟后，就会有改变发生了。你将不再介意这些想法的具体内容为何，而是开始释放你内在被禁锢已久的创造力。在试着在20分钟内列出100件事的过程中，你正开始列出一些你不确定你是否渴望过的稀奇古怪的事，但是这些想法仍然奔向你。


Ding! The timer goes off. No matter where you are in the process, or how many items you have written down, stop. (Okay, if you are really on a roll and have a few more to write down because the juices are flowing, keep going. I won't tell).
叮! 时间到了。不管你进行到哪里，和你已列出多少事项，立即停止。（好吧！如果你做得正顺手或还有一些要补充，那就继续吧！我不会告诉别人的。）


Leave the list alone for a day. Try not to look at it, and certainly don't revise it in any way. The following day, sit down and look at your list. How many of the items on it are feasible? Can you see your way to accomplishing any of it? Did anything come out of the list that you hadn't actually really thought of until you wrote it down in a hurried attempt to get to 100 items in the time limit? Any surprises in there?

把这张单子放个一天。试着不去看它，当然更不要修改它。第二天，坐下并检视你的列表。有多少项目是可行的? 你知道该如何去实践它吗？有多少项是你从没想过直到你把它列在单子上只为了要在时间内凑足100项? 有任何惊喜隐藏其中吗?

The point of this exercise is not to create a giant and outlandish "to-do" list that never gets ticked off. Instead, it is simply to open up your mind to the idea that anything is possible, and to give you ideas that will help you to become unstuck in life.

这个练习的重点是，不要去创造出一个巨大古怪的“待办“清单。它的目的是为了打开你的心，去接受任何可能的想法，并提供你一些帮助你走出生命困境的解决之道。


Personally after feeling stuck and making out my list, I identified a few ways to make positive changes in my life at the time; I joined Toastmasters because an item I wrote down was to become a public speaker. I also eventually started a blog to satisfy an inner wordsmith in me that has blossomed into a career. And ultimately, the list helped lead me to the decision to sell off everything I owned to live out my dreams of travel and adventure now.

就我个人来说，在我列出了我的清单后，我找出了一些方式让我的生活有正向的转变。我加入了Toastmasters（国际演讲者小组）因为我所列出的其中一项就是要成为一个演讲者。我也终于建立了一个博客来满足我内在的呼唤，而最后这也发展成了我的事业。最终，这张单子引导我去出清所有的家当，然后去实现我旅行及探险的梦想。


And it all started with 20 minutes and 100 ways to change my life.

而这一切的转变，都开始于20分钟及100种方法。

Something happens after about 10 or 15 minutes if you employ the exercise to its full potential. You stop caring about what specifically the ideas are, and you start to release an inner creativity that may have been locked away for a while. In an effort to get through 100 things in 20 minutes, you start to write outlandish things down that you aren't even really sure you want, but that are ideas that came to you nonetheless.

如果你有将这个练习的效果发挥到极致，10到15分钟后，就会有改变发生了。你将不再介意这些想法的具体内容为何，而是开始释放你内在被禁锢已久的创造力。在试着在20分钟内列出100件事的过程中，你正开始列出一些你不确定你是否渴望过的稀奇古怪的事，但是这些想法仍然奔向你。


Ding! The timer goes off. No matter where you are in the process, or how many items you have written down, stop. (Okay, if you are really on a roll and have a few more to write down because the juices are flowing, keep going. I won't tell).
叮! 时间到了。不管你进行到哪里，和你已列出多少事项，立即停止。（好吧！如果你做得正顺手或还有一些要补充，那就继续吧！我不会告诉别人的。）


Leave the list alone for a day. Try not to look at it, and certainly don't revise it in any way. The following day, sit down and look at your list. How many of the items on it are feasible? Can you see your way to accomplishing any of it? Did anything come out of the list that you hadn't actually really thought of until you wrote it down in a hurried attempt to get to 100 items in the time limit? Any surprises in there?

把这张单子放个一天。试着不去看它，当然更不要修改它。第二天，坐下并检视你的列表。有多少项目是可行的? 你知道该如何去实践它吗？有多少项是你从没想过直到你把它列在单子上只为了要在时间内凑足100项? 有任何惊喜隐藏其中吗?

The point of this exercise is not to create a giant and outlandish "to-do" list that never gets ticked off. Instead, it is simply to open up your mind to the idea that anything is possible, and to give you ideas that will help you to become unstuck in life.

这个练习的重点是，不要去创造出一个巨大古怪的“待办“清单。它的目的是为了打开你的心，去接受任何可能的想法，并提供你一些帮助你走出生命困境的解决之道。


Personally after feeling stuck and making out my list, I identified a few ways to make positive changes in my life at the time; I joined Toastmasters because an item I wrote down was to become a public speaker. I also eventually started a blog to satisfy an inner wordsmith in me that has blossomed into a career. And ultimately, the list helped lead me to the decision to sell off everything I owned to live out my dreams of travel and adventure now.

就我个人来说，在我列出了我的清单后，我找出了一些方式让我的生活有正向的转变。我加入了Toastmasters（国际演讲者小组）因为我所列出的其中一项就是要成为一个演讲者。我也终于建立了一个博客来满足我内在的呼唤，而最后这也发展成了我的事业。最终，这张单子引导我去出清所有的家当，然后去实现我旅行及探险的梦想。


And it all started with 20 minutes and 100 ways to change my life.

而这一切的转变，都开始于20分钟及100种方法。

完了，我的梦想就是考个公务员，然后结婚生娃，于是它不叫梦想叫啥 TAT

时差在霓虹。大年三十考院试大年初三过25岁生日的一枚飘过~感觉梦想是越来越清楚具体了而不是越来越远了。虽然每天依然在艰难挣扎但觉得现在这种状态也挺好的

我记得有次，一个男同事抱怨说，你们怎么可以老是忍受做这样的事情

难道你们就没有什么梦想吗

当时所有的人都爆笑，深深的认定此男是个SB

回头想想，虽然那位男同事思想的确有些幼稚，但连梦想都没有的我们，不是更可怜么。。。

我也不知道自己的梦想是什么，从小就不知道

不知哪里看到的，一直记在心里，“梦想是强者的特权，弱者只能帮别人实现梦想。”于是比起梦想，更想让自己变强大。

我记得有次，一个男同事抱怨说，你们怎么可以老是忍受做这样的事情

难道你们就没有什么梦想吗

当时所有的人都爆笑，深深的认定此男是个SB

回头想想，虽然那位男同事思想的确有些幼稚，但连梦想都没有的我们，不是更可怜么。。。

我也不知道自己的梦想是什么，从小就不知道

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囧，就是因为社会上这样的风气，所以就算有梦想也不会说

无法理解取笑他的人怀着怎样的心情，其实心里还是很受震撼的吧

上了大学以后就不谈梦想了。但是心里会想自己怎么变成这样的。

专业不喜欢，但是很实用。工作不喜欢，但是能赚钱。

后来发觉，那个我就死活喜欢的冷门DT的专业，是我自己没有魄力去选。

要真追求到那份儿上，现实根本不是阻碍。

虽然挺杯具的，但是也想通了。

小时候梦想是长大了买辆摩托车给外公，买好房子给外婆

后来两位老人都走了，闷了很久

现在梦想就是好好活着，不让爹妈太操心

我的梦想是做一名涉外的体育记者。。OTZ

真的是太遥不可及的梦想了

只能默默的把它埋在心里